Sunday, October 19, 2008

one month to go

exactly one month to go, and i'm getting married to my hunny of 7 years... we took another big step yesterday, and reserved our very own apartment unit!

yes, our plan is to move in to our flat right after the wedding. it's kinda difficult for me and i end up crying every time i think or talk about moving out with my cousin or friends. i am very very close to my family and the thought of leaving them just breaks my heart. but i know, this is all part of getting married and growing up. sometimes, i feel guilty because i am overwhelmed with mixed emotions, instead of just being excited. i say this to hun everytime and i'm glad he understands. for all i know, he wants to cry too. hehe. ;) hay, ang hirap pala.

to remedy this, i plan to involve my family as much as i can, although decisions should still be made by hun and i. just like yesterday, i asked my parents to accompany us in booking so they can also see the apartment. at least, they won't feel that i'm abandoning them or something. we talked about how their visits would be, where would they park, etc. eases a little pain in my heart. i'm glad that they also like the unit we reserved. yey!

anyway, that's it, laptop battery dangerously low... till next post! happy monthsary hunny!

7 comments:

JOANNA said...

congratulations! i'm so excited for you! it's a good move to have your own place. it's a big step and is hard in the beginning but a definite must. it's very important to have your own space.

Anonymous said...

Wow, Myls! Congrats on the new apartment! Yan kasi mahirap na antagal natin sila kasama, ang hirap ng thought na finally, magsosolo na and mag-start ng new chapter, new MYLStone :) One month na lang, panibagong buhay! Good luck and see yah soon, Myls!

myls said...

thanks joanna and meyps! hay, yeah, very big step. mas excited na nga ako actually sa planning ng bahay namin kesa sa kasal. hahaha!!! pero maloloka naman ako sa expenses! sana sa umpisa lang ganito kalaki ang kailangan. :P hay, good luck na lang to us.

joanna, inggit ako kasi expert ka na dito! rereviewhin ko blog entries mo kasi marami kang entries about moving. haha! :) regards to your family. :)

JOANNA said...

hahaha! pikit-mata na lang sa gastos kasi no choice. at least you're not moving to a different province,state, or country so di mo kailangan magbawas ng ganon karaming gamit. if it helps, after moving a million times this is my motto: when in doubt, throw it out! hahaha, good luck!

when's the big move? saka kelan nga ba wedding mo?

myls said...

ok, i'll keep that in mind. revise ko na lang, "when in doubt, leave at home". hahaha! para just in case i need it. :D

we will start moving little stuff as soon as the cabinets are painted and everything else is fixed. emman would move in first.. siguro start of november, andun na siya. we're getting married on the 19th of november. shucks, joanna, 30 days na lang! :O

JOANNA said...

excited na ako sa pictures hahaha!

oo nga pala, daya, buti ka pa may pagiiwanan na bahay - hmp!

myls said...

hahaha! e kawawa naman din kami, ka-liit ng apartment namin. :D hehehe. :) sobrang tense ko na talaga, over na'to! :P